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Nightmares and kids

Anything that bothers our children becomes a huge matter of concern for us. Tender love and care is provided to all children and we are assured when the child is blessed with good health. As childhood is full of new things, so also the child’s immune system is developing and the most common complaint is a tummy upset or cold. The biggest cause of concern for parents is when the child is unable to sleep peacefully at night.

 Anxiety is also a very common factor about childhood. Anything new enamors a child and with it is present the right mix of positive and negative strokes. The child may love the Pre School and as it gets routine the child may develop an anxiety owing to separation with the care giver. Nothing is constant in the child’s behavior and many times these forms as night mares for children.

 When the infant cries constantly at nights, the best remedy is to offer reassurance with lots of hugs and talks. As the child grows and by five or even years they are able to gauge the surroundings very well. Their instincts get developed and a casual chat can be termed by them as a contemplative issue. Hence it is best to avoid conflict related talks in front of them. Their subconscious mind relates to certain TV programs or a fear linked viewing and they appear to scream and yell in the night.

 Many times this is shocking as their body is violent and also they repeat certain words continuously. It certainly helps not to panic and waking them up is an ideal situation. This may also happen as a side effect of a drug or general sickness. It may be very surprising to us that children are unable to link the same when they get up bright and happy in the mornings.

 

Children also face peer pressure and a certain routine takes the essence in functioning. Breaks and outings are the right of every child and get them around more sociable outings. Thus parenting is a revealing experience. Usually this is a passing phase.  If the terrors persist then seeing a doctor is advisable.

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Importance of family for a child

It is undoubted that the biggest support that your child requires is from the family. This is where the child feels his or her comfort zone. It is a matter of safety and security that the child feels. It is the family and the environment that shapes the child. Here, children get their share of love, support, learning, dealing with emotions etc. Hence in growing years of your child, ensure that he gets proper support from his or her family. Family support helps a child as it makes him grow in self confidence and improves and builds his personality. Family also helps the child to learn things that he would never otherwise learn even in school. Indian values like tolerance and respect are taught only at home. Children who do not get adequate family support are not only shy and introvert, but sometimes, it even has effect on the child’s psyche.

Some children may reach a stage where they become a loner. These children also become or in their communication skills. Hence a healthy family support should be ensured to your child. This family support is like a banyan tree. It will help your child grow and since the roots of this tree and spread deep inside the soil, it will make sure that the child stays grounded. Another point which most Indian families lack at is the let out of emotions that is often not provided. Children just grow up in a strict environment. Though there is a lot of drama and over usage of emotions, there is no real let out of emotions.

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