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The cyberspace kids

Today’s children are growing up with new technologies that are creating new generation gaps. Not only do children today breed on Youtube and Facebook, but also their world includes with video chats, digital books, video games and the likes. This accelerating pace of technology, which the children are being exposed to, is creating huge generation gaps. Children, who are in their formative stages of development, are being exposed to so much in so little time that they are ageing fast & are losing out on their childhood. The place where this generation gap is most visible is in the way these kids communicate and make their entertainment choices. Studies have shown that children as young as eight and nine SMS more often than the teenagers do! The study also revealed that the newer generation; unlike their older peers, lack patience and expect an instant response from everyone they communicate with. Because this generation is being brought up in an instantaneous communication enriched world, they also expect their parents and teachers to give them quick replies.

Children today are thriving on the virtual world. Most of them have more friends in the virtual world than the real world. They are hooked to playing video games, love isolation but at the same time are actively socializing virtually, prefer chatting than talking on the phone, communicate effectively but at the same time find it difficult to express emotions etc.

A mother of an eight year old daughter revealed that her child’s life is shaped up by technologies and high tech gadgets. She knows nothing other than a world that is full of e-books, Skype video chats, and games on the iPhone! All these facts reveal that parents need to put certain restrictions on the technology usage patterns by their kids. Try and not expose your kids to such addictive gadgets at such an early age. It is important that your child learns to play cricket (for instance) than press buttons and makes runs!

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Increasing suicidal tendencies in teenagers

It is shocking to read in the papers almost every day the rate at which students in India are committing suicides. Teenage suicide has become a growing concern among our Indian society. So what is it that triggers these young brains to take such a big step? Fast life? Stress? Depression? Loneliness? Peer pressure? Exam and study related anxiety? Issues with parents? Inability to cope with life? Or all of this? Most students today agree to the fact that they have had suicidal thoughts at least once in their life. Isn’t this scary? Well, it is high time parents and teachers need to get together and address this issue more strongly. (more…)

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Dieting in teens

Today being thin has become a fad. Not only are adults on strict diets, but they are also putting their teens on diet. First and foremost do not put your children on diet without prior consultation with your doctor or dietician. Instead, learn and let your child too learn about the importance of a balanced and a nutritious diet. Encourage some sports into your child’s life and try and be as subtle as possible when you tell your child what to eat and what not to eat. Do not put dietary restrictions at the first go. This might be seen as a compulsion and your rebellious teen may not want to follow that.

 Do not talk about your child’s overweight problems and dietary restrictions in front of relatives and friends. Do not make a big deal about the issue and let your child learn and understand why he should avoid oily fatty foods. It is natural that your teenager might get tempted to eat outside food that may not be healthy. It is ok to let your child indulge in the same once in a while. Once your child realizes that he needs to balance his meal he or she will automatically not be tempted to eat oily and fatty foods.

 Don’t give keep too many fried munching items at home. It is not fair to expect your child to stay away from these when you and the rest of your family are enjoying it. You will slowly and subtly see the changes in your teen. The key here is to be patient and not expect any quick results. Also, you child may fall once, two times but he will succeed the third time. 

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Dealing with teenagers

It is said that the real art of parenting comes into practice when parents have to deal with their teenage kids. It is said that it is easier to handle a toddler than handle a teenager. As kids grow and taste their new found freedom, issues between parents and their kids are bound to arise. Parents and teenagers both go through a phase of change and evolution.

It is important to understand that teenage is about self realization. Although they are not completely equipped to handle themselves mentally, they are mature individuals. Constant disapprovals and grounding will make them more courageous to seek the forbidden fruit. Use a little compassion.

Parents should encourage sports. It is possible that your son/daughter is a home bird and enjoys art and culture work than the robust rugby. Accept him and love him for what he is. Talk to him about love and matters of heart so that he feels comfortable with you and believes that he can share things with you on such matters. Those pearls of wisdom ingrained at this age, will make him a mature person at home.

Teenagers love to help and it makes them feel important. Get them on to such kind of jobs. Give them space and time. Respect their friends, call them over, win them over with sincerity and never scold your children in front of their friends. Sometimes, parents need to step into their children’s shoes and think otherwise.

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Teenagers

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