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Dieting in teens

Today being thin has become a fad. Not only are adults on strict diets, but they are also putting their teens on diet. First and foremost do not put your children on diet without prior consultation with your doctor or dietician. Instead, learn and let your child too learn about the importance of a balanced and a nutritious diet. Encourage some sports into your child’s life and try and be as subtle as possible when you tell your child what to eat and what not to eat. Do not put dietary restrictions at the first go. This might be seen as a compulsion and your rebellious teen may not want to follow that.

 Do not talk about your child’s overweight problems and dietary restrictions in front of relatives and friends. Do not make a big deal about the issue and let your child learn and understand why he should avoid oily fatty foods. It is natural that your teenager might get tempted to eat outside food that may not be healthy. It is ok to let your child indulge in the same once in a while. Once your child realizes that he needs to balance his meal he or she will automatically not be tempted to eat oily and fatty foods.

 Don’t give keep too many fried munching items at home. It is not fair to expect your child to stay away from these when you and the rest of your family are enjoying it. You will slowly and subtly see the changes in your teen. The key here is to be patient and not expect any quick results. Also, you child may fall once, two times but he will succeed the third time. 

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Handling Aggressive Child

Parents would love to see their children grow up as confident and strong-willed. Those attributes will just ensure that child will be able to have a good life based on these virtues. And if the future of child seems promising what else can the parents ask for? But it is easier said than done. It is the duty and responsibility of the parents to instil such virtues in the kid and that is no easy task. It will be stressful and difficult but when did someone say parenting is an easy job?

Quite a good number of children love to cause unrest and problems to their parents. They don’t do it intentionally but they are just like that and they can’t help it. They could be doing it because of their attention-seeking nature or for some other psychological reasons. While dealing with such children, parents need to be very patient. If the child is strong willed, it can have negative connotations as well like they will argue fiercely and will be very stubborn. In such conditions, parents need to retain their calm and handle situation in a peaceful manner. No point in spanking the kid. This will make him even more stubborn.

Remember, child is doing all these because he is seeking attention. Even negative attention has ‘attention at its end. Handle this habit of his in a tenderly and disciplined manner. Allowing yourself to yell, shout and get angry at the kid will further worsen the situation. Check out for the right opportunities while you can explain the kid in the best possible way. Don’t give in to his negative reinforcement demands. Indulge in some positive praise whenever child behaves correctly or when you feel he is trying to rectify his mistakes.

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