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Selecting Right Toys For Toddler

Your toddler must be very fond of toys and why not, children just love toys. The role of toys is very important in the development of a child. It is not only essential for recreational purposes but also for learning and development. The future development of a child very well depends upon how has been treated in his formative years. Parents must ensure their child is getting best possible opportunities for learning and progressing purposes. While we are focussing on learning, toys come into the picture. The importance of toys has been established in aspects like sensory skills, social and motor development of the child. From that perspective, it becomes important for parents to choose right kind of toys for the toddler, considering its future implications.

The first rule is to get hold of simple and solid toys. The reason is children love to break toys by throwing away or banging them or using them against the walls. In such light, what’s the point of purchasing a delicate or sophisticated toy? Parents must be quite alert while purchasing toys. There are factors like loose parts, sharp edged toys or toxic paints harmful for babies etc that should be considered while parents decide to buy toys. The logic is quite understandable because of child’s habit of putting everything in his mouth.

A baby develops his first taste of social skills while he plays with ball. Point to be noted here is, while a baby throws ball to someone the latter throws it back and in the process there is development of social skills. Toys with buttons, levers, push buttons must be givn preference because toddler will learn to do something on his own. Take for example, toy telephone which is quite useful in sowing the seed of conversational skills. Similarly, parents should opt for storybooks, building blocks and push-pull toys.

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Handling Aggressive Child

Parents would love to see their children grow up as confident and strong-willed. Those attributes will just ensure that child will be able to have a good life based on these virtues. And if the future of child seems promising what else can the parents ask for? But it is easier said than done. It is the duty and responsibility of the parents to instil such virtues in the kid and that is no easy task. It will be stressful and difficult but when did someone say parenting is an easy job?

Quite a good number of children love to cause unrest and problems to their parents. They don’t do it intentionally but they are just like that and they can’t help it. They could be doing it because of their attention-seeking nature or for some other psychological reasons. While dealing with such children, parents need to be very patient. If the child is strong willed, it can have negative connotations as well like they will argue fiercely and will be very stubborn. In such conditions, parents need to retain their calm and handle situation in a peaceful manner. No point in spanking the kid. This will make him even more stubborn.

Remember, child is doing all these because he is seeking attention. Even negative attention has ‘attention at its end. Handle this habit of his in a tenderly and disciplined manner. Allowing yourself to yell, shout and get angry at the kid will further worsen the situation. Check out for the right opportunities while you can explain the kid in the best possible way. Don’t give in to his negative reinforcement demands. Indulge in some positive praise whenever child behaves correctly or when you feel he is trying to rectify his mistakes.

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Malnutrition in children

Does your child’s malnutrition worry you all the time? Do you the causes of under nutrition in children? Let’s get acquainted with some of the major reasons. Its usually recommended that children should be given more of fruits than juices as juices contain more of sugar and less of vitamins.
Parents who worry about their children becoming obese and give them a low fat diet when they are under 2 years of age also risk their children becoming skinny. Fats are an important constituent of every diet for storing energy, protecting or insulating the body and absorbing fat-soluble vitamins. So, adequate fat products should be given to every child but in limits.
Make sure your child does not skip breakfast. It can directly affect the calorie count in their body. If your child is physically very active, give him more energizing foods like carbohydrates.

Grains supply carbohydrates, the chief source of energy at least 6-11 servings per day. Fruit and vegetables supply vitamins and minerals, a good source of fiber which helps reduce cholesterol for healthy skin, hair and vision. Milk provides calcium for bone growth and maintenance. Make your child consume a cup of milk or 2 ounces of cheese around 2 3 times a day. Cook them meat and for vegetarians, make them have peanut butter. Do not limit fat foods and sweets as they supply extra calories.
Eating patterns usually change during childhood. Include only healthy foods in your child’s diet. Being thin or slim is different from being underweight and it is alright to have a slight built. Just maintain a balanced diet according to your child’s activity and growth. However, malnourished may be a symbol of nutritional, health, or emotional problems. So, deal with it with a fun diet and let your kid grow up well.

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Consistent Parenting

The virtue of consistency has been emphasised all over the place. We all know how important a role it plays in our social life and in aspects like success, relationship and attitude. It is no longer different in parenting. For right development of a child, parents need to ensure that they are being consistent in their behaviour. A child needs consistent behavioural pattern form his parents from adolescence to youth. There can be serious repercussions if parents fail to provide consistent behaviour.

A child’s mind is very open to different messages received by him from his surroundings. From their experience they learn to derive what and whom to trust and whom not to. Child’s mind needs to be very consistent if he has to retain his ability to process the messages on a consistent basis. That’ where parents role come in picture. If parents are consistent in their behaviour then child will be assured of understanding on a regular basis. It will also help in better bonding between child and parents. The more consistent parents are in their behaviour, more secure child feels. It has been observed that babies who have consistent parents experience less anxiety. They just know that they can rely on his parents.

Parents need to keep regular routines with their children. That way, they will have less chaos and even lesser arguments with the kid as and when he starts with important things of his life like school, sports, social interactions. Children will be less motivated to go against their parents and they will know what behaviour is expected of them. It also helps in proper establishment of cause and effects relationship. Lack of inconsistent behaviour can cause several problems.

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School Uniforms – Perspective

It is dream of every parent to see his kid joining a good school and excel in academics. Right from the time when child is born, his growing up process has a lot to do with his education. And as far as education and other aspects of personality are concerned, school plays a very vital role in child’s life. This is where; he learns not only the words printed in the books but also learns to interact with others of his age. He remains on his own for the duration he is in school and no doubt, this is the biggest learning ground for the kid. School is the temple of knowledge and here a child learns to taste numerous hitherto unseen aspects of life. The topic of school has also been a major topic of discussion all over the world as regards to its effect on children. Right from educationalists, psychologists, philosophers and behaviour analysts, they all have their own views about different effects of school on kids. One such issue within the periphery of school is dress code. This has definitely been a heated topic.

There are several benefits of having a dress code or school uniform. One of the reasons championed quite often is concentration level of students more focussed on education rather than wardrobe. They will not be really concerned with different dress combinations. Having a dress code is also instrumental in taking school environment more seriously and not getting distracted with other trivialities. Factors like violence and social conflict also gets decreased because of proper dress code.

On the downside, dress code curbs self expression of a child. It also goes against the spirit of individuality. All in all, it’s a mixed bag considering the pros and cons of school uniforms.

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Baby Bathing Tips

Babies are a bundle of joy to every family. Every little responsibility associated with them becomes pleasurable and is cherished. Bathing them is one such responsibility which is often enjoyed by every new parent. But there are some things you should be careful of while bathing them so as to keep them safe and sound.

While giving them a shower, stay close to the baby at all times. Don’t ever look away from them even for a matter of a second. A bath chair will give your child additional support while in the bathtub, but it will not shield the child from injury or drowning. Follow some tips while using a bath seat or bath rings. Use them with children who are able to sit upright without you holding them. If the child is too small to sit upright avoid using bath seats.

Always keep all the bathing material ready before you bring the child into the bathroom so that you don’t have to leave the child and go to fetch soap or shampoo. Keep them out of the reach of children. The bath tub should be clean and dirt free so that it is hygienic and safe.

Use only products which are meant for baby hygiene. Don’t use the same shampoo for your baby as you do, since baby skin is way more sensitive than yours. Don’t scrub baby skin too hard as they could develop rashes and just pour water over their body gently.

Wipe the baby dry immediately after bath and apply baby powder on their skin, especially during summers to avoid heat boils and rashes. If any kind of irritation due to bathing products exists, change the product immediately and consult your doctor.

Use lukewarm water to give them a shower and let your baby enjoy the moment as much as you do.

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Overprotecting Mothers

Some parents tend to be very overprotective. But then we all know that ‘excess of everything is bad’ and so is over-protection. Extreme love has its own downsides and sometimes it leaves a life-long effect on kids. Too much care and concern can make your child quite dependent and he will coming back to you for every small thing. More than the fathers, it is mothers who tend to be overly protective. Fathers often have to maintain the image of head of the family and he is more concerned towards discipline and rules part whereas mothers love spoon feeding. However, it is not a general case but yes, you can see it quite often. Overprotective mothers can literally make a child crippled in sense of dependency and self-sufficiency.

Such over-protection can often lead to child becoming unable to fend for himself. They are not able to come out of trouble on their own because he has been provided so much of care that he starts believing that his mother will take care of every problem. His own thinking gets muted and this can have a very dangerous impact on kid once he grows up. This holds more prominence in case of boys than girls. Overall, this is not at all conducive to the personality development of a child.

There are several dangers of having an over protective mother. One of them is immaturity of child even at a later stage of his life. That becomes quite obvious because he is simply not able to think for himself and looks out to others whenever a problem arises. He will also shy away from taking any responsibility because he never had any firsthand experience of carrying a serious responsibility. An overly protected child will also have difficulty in facing criticism because he has always been a pampered one.  

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Common cold in children

Common cold as the name suggests is common among children. They are absolutely normal and can be dealt with. If it’s a mild cold, home remedies are more than enough to cure them.

Always remember that cold is most contagious from the 2nd to the 4th day once the symptoms start appearing. It is important to explain to your children the benefits of using a tissue paper every time the sneeze. Also, encourage them to wash their hands and face frequently to avoid spreading the germs. Keep their towels and clothes separate so that others in the family remain unaffected.

Some ways you can help relieve cold uneasiness consist of:

· Put saltwater drops in the nostrils to reduce nasal blocking. Saline drops are also available at any medical store or pharmacy.
· A cool-mist humidifier to boost air humidity.
· Apply petroleum jelly below the nose on the skin ease rawness.
· Give them hard candy or cough drops to ease aching throat (for kids older than 3 years).
· Give them a shower with warm water or a heating pad to relieve aches and pains.
· Make them take steam from a hot shower for easy breathing.

Don’t panic about your child’s diet, just ensure he eats when hungry and drinks ample of fluids like water or juice to help restore the fluids lost during fever or mucus production. Stay away from giving them caffeinated beverages which can cause repeated urination and add to the danger of dehydration.

If you think your child is suffering from more than a cold or is getting worse then consult a doctor. Cold will take it’s time to cure, just make sure your child gets plenty of rest, avoids any kind of forceful activity and intakes a lot of fluids which may help them feel better.

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Handling Sibling Rivalry

Sibling rivalry is a common occurrence in several households. On one hand, having two kids in the house has the advantage of both playing with each other and at the same time it runs the risk of them having frequent fights. When such situation arises, of course it is the parents that have to suffer from useless battles. But first thing that you need to understand is, it’s not only your kids that are fighting among themselves but it happens in every second home. So take bother to take unnecessary tension and try having a neutral role. You can also opt for some learning as in how to manage differences and get along.

As a parent, always keep your ears open in the sense that when kids are fighting try to observe how they are handling tensions. Sometimes, mutual fights are best way for kids to learn aspects like negotiations, agreements and co-operation. You can also have a firsthand experience of how child is handling issues. Step in only when things are getting out of control. Also try to differentiate between serious conflicts or mere annoying. Try to meddle only when things are getting out of hand, someone is getting violent and some items are crashing.

Sometimes, it is a wiser idea to divert the attention of warring kids to something more stimulating like video, TV or sports. Kids have fickle attention span so they might forget things in hurry if properly diverted. Parents can also act as moderators where you listen to both parties, hear out their concerns and then decide. Try to be fair-minded. Finally, teach kids to respect each other. These virtues have to be instilled from childhood only.

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First Day at School

Parents wait for their toddlers to go get learning in their school. However, many kids are nervous on the first day of school. There are ways to organize your kid for the big day! Make them read or read out books about school to them. Converse with other children about school, particularly siblings or vicinity friends. These specialists can assist answer any queries your child has. Visit their classroom earlier to the first day. Set up a standard bedtime at least 15 days prior to the start of school. Create an easygoing morning schedule to help your child get prepared. Choose school goods together, such as school bags tiffins and water bottles. Be prepared and say good-bye quickly. Kids are quick to “single out” signs of uncertainty by parents and may become sad. Bid them with a smile and assure them that it’s going to be absolutely great. Get a little time out at the end of the day and talk about your child’s big quest!

Even if your child is brave and confident he may have second thoughts about passing the entrance of the classroom. Shy and fear are few emotions every child tends to go through. It is important for every parent to make their children comfortable and give them time, to tell them that how wonderful school is, how they can make new friends there, share their toys, play with them and other things that would attract them towards school. Books with lovely images of school are available in the markets that create a liking in the minds of the children towards school. Parents can refer to these books and also try and communicate with other parents from the same class and introduce your children to their children so that they have a familiar ambience when they go to school.

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